Straight answers about our love ritual service — including the things we cannot promise you.
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About the service
What is a love ritual?
A love ritual is a traditional spiritual practice. In the Lanna tradition of northern Thailand it is carried out by a practitioner on a prepared altar, using offerings, candles, flowers and consecrated items.
It is a spiritual service. It is not a medical, psychological or legal service and is not a substitute for any of them.
What is its intended purpose?
It is intended to support a person’s hopes for a relationship — commonly reconciliation after a separation, or settling a relationship that has become strained.
Rituals are traditionally believed to support a situation. Individual experiences differ, and no particular result can be guaranteed.
Who performs the ritual?
Ajarn James, an independent practitioner based in Chiang Mai, Thailand, with more than twenty years of practice in the Lanna tradition. You can read about his practice before deciding anything.
What is Ajarn James’s role?
He carries out the ritual itself. He primarily performs blessing rituals for his followers in Chiang Mai, and also performs love rituals and other forms of occult ritual depending on what a client asks for.
He decides whether to accept a request. Not every request is accepted.
What is the Bloodworm Love Ritual?
It is Ajarn James’s signature ritual, performed in the Lanna tradition and traditionally associated with reconciliation and love binding. The fee is S$600 and the details are on its product page.
How does Element Mustika facilitate the service?
Element Mustika Spiritual is the point of contact in Singapore. We take your enquiry, discuss the situation privately, describe the request to the practitioner, agree the fee with you and send you the documentation afterwards.
We do not perform the ritual ourselves.
What happens during the consultation?
It is a private conversation over WhatsApp. We ask about your circumstances so the request can be described accurately, tell you which ritual is being suggested and what it costs, and answer your questions.
There is no cost for the consultation and no obligation to proceed.
Will I receive photographs or videos?
Yes. Photographic or video documentation of the ritual carried out for you is sent to you after the ritual has been completed.
It shows that the ritual took place. It is not evidence that a particular outcome will follow.
How long does the ritual process take?
The consultation usually takes place over a conversation. The ritual is then scheduled once the offerings and preparation are ready, and some rituals are performed on particular nights.
We will give you a realistic idea of timing when we discuss your situation, and we will not promise a date we cannot keep. The full sequence is on the ritual process page.
Expectations, privacy and next steps
How long might it take to experience an outcome?
We cannot tell you, and we will not pretend otherwise. Individual experiences differ, and no particular result can be guaranteed.
Any practitioner who gives you a fixed number of days is telling you something they are not in a position to know.
Are results guaranteed?
No. A ritual is traditionally believed to support a situation, but no particular result can be guaranteed and we do not offer one.
Does a ritual control another person?
No, and we will not describe it that way. A ritual is intended to support your own hopes for a relationship.
It does not remove another person’s choice, and it does not replace your own communication, conduct and judgement.
What ethical considerations should I understand?
We will not accept a request aimed at harming someone, at pressuring a person who has asked to be left alone, or at overriding someone’s clearly stated position.
Where a situation involves safety, harassment or a legal matter, please seek the appropriate help. A spiritual service is not the right answer to it.
What happens to my personal information after the ritual?
Personal information and photographs you provide for a ritual are deleted once your documentation has been sent to you — unless you have given us permission to show your ritual documentation as an example of our work.
We do not publish your consultation, and we do not pass your details to anyone other than the practitioner carrying out the ritual.
Can you resend my ritual documentation later?
No. Please save your own copy as soon as it arrives, and store it somewhere you will still have access to.
Once your documentation has been sent, we will not be able to send it to you again.
How can I identify a questionable ritual service?
Common warning signs are a guaranteed outcome, a fixed number of days, pressure to decide quickly, and repeated demands for more money to “complete” or “strengthen” work you have already paid for.